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my friend needs relationship advice… her bf watches porn and it bothers her. Is it just something us girls have to deal with?
Mandysezz: ahhh. the age old question abt men and porn. I think it depends on the relationship. Do you look at porn? Is this something that you could see being a part of your life? I don’t think it has as much to do with wanting to have sex with someone else, as it does being able to provide that sexual release for yourself. I think having a sexual relationship with yourself is a really important part of being in a healthy relationship. I’m saying this based on my life experiences. I’ve also been in situations where I’ve been cheated on(haven’t we all?) and the thought of my man lookin at porn made me MAAADDDD. There might be other issues underneath this one that are just breakin on through. Try and analyze what your exact problem is with the porn and move upward from there. Is this a self esteem issue? Does your man have roaming eyes? Are you not getting any from him? There are a lot of things that this porn issue could just really be the last straw for. Make a diagram if you have to. Regardless of why you have these feelings, you’re totally entitled to it… Don’t forget that a relationship requires compromise even when it comes to things u may not understand. Good luck and write back if you need to!